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PERSONAL

Divorced; children: yes.

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  • Home - London, England.

CAREER

Journalist and educator. Worked as a journalist for nine years; taught English and media studies for nine years.

WRITINGS

  • Shtum (novel), Overlook Press (New York, NY), 2017

SIDELIGHTS

Jem Lester is a former journalist and English teacher. He worked as a journalist for nine years and also taught English and media studies for that long as well. Lester began writing his first novel while a master’s student in a creative writing program.

Lester published his debut novel, Shtum, in 2017. Based on the author’s experiences with his own autistic son, the novel centers on the relationship between devoted by flawed father Ben and his autistic and mute ten-year-old son, Jonah. Ben’s lawyer wife, Emma, agrees that Jonah should be placed in a residential school for special-needs children. However, the pair must pretend to be in the middle of a divorce in order to counter the challenge set forth by the local school district which would otherwise have to pay for Jonah’s high tuition. Ben and Jonah move in with his gruff father, Georg, while going through the legal proceedings.

In an article in the London Evening Standard, Lester talked about his motivation for writing the novel. “I wrote Shtum because I was always struck by the irony of Noah’s ability to tell me what he wanted despite having no language…. Writing it certainly wasn’t a therapy and there were times when I found it painful. Bear in mind that the book finishes but the story behind it is our lives, which carry on. There are still huge obstacles ahead.”

A contributor to Kirkus Reviews commented that “Lester’s tendency toward preachy platitudes—‘without loving myself, I cannot hope to love another’–undercuts the power of his heart-wrenching characters and plot.” A Publishers Weekly contributor claimed that “complex characters and wonderful descriptions combine to create an honest yet blunt portrayal.” In a review in the London Guardian, Saskia Baron summarized that “the novel’s text is broken up with officious letters from authorities, crammed with Orwellian doublespeak. It is also peppered with ironically deployed icons of the type Jonah uses to communicate. At times Lester’s ambitious cinematic crosscutting between showdowns with officialdom and stories from the past puts a strain on the narrative flow. Overall, though, this is an impressive novel.” Writing in the Financial Times, Isabel Berwick opined that “seeing Emma through Ben’s eyes—she leaves him in sole charge of Jonah for months—makes her seem harsh and odd. Why leave her child like that? It’s the underwritten, unsatisfying aspect of the book. She does eventually reappear with an explanation, but this is really the story of the men in the family.”

In a review in Washington Post Book World, Eli Gottlieb reasoned that the novel “is a bit of a mixed bag. The author elects to tell the story in first person present tense, a choice that adds a choppy, staccato feel to things and also underlines some of the narrative discontinuities that creep into the text along the way. The dialogue can occasionally feel a bit canned.” Gottlieb conceded that “what Shtum does do well, and memorably, is describe the ferocity of attachment a parent feels toward a disabled child.” Reviewing the novel in the Times of Israel, Anne Joseph mentioned that “Shtum is vivid, raw, and unremitting in its portrayal of parenting a child with autism. It is a perfect example of how compelling the art-life continuum can be.” Joseph noted that “one of the novel’s most poignant characters is Ben’s father Georg, a Holocaust survivor, who is unable to talk to his son about his traumatic past and instead, relays his childhood experiences to the silent Jonah. The nature of the relationship is not only confessional, it illustrates the special intergenerational bond that can exist within families.”

BIOCRIT

PERIODICALS

  • Evening Standard (London, England), March 24, 2016, Katie Law, “Former Journalist Jem Lester on Writing a Novel about Life with an Autistic Child.”

  • Financial Times, April 29, 2016, review of Shtum.

  • Guardian (London, England), March 16, 2016, Saskia Baron, review of Shtum; March 27, 2016, Hannah Beckerman, “Jem Lester: ‘Letting Your Son Go Aged 11, Knowing That He Will Never Live with You Again, Is Very Difficult.'”

  • Kirkus Reviews, March 1, 2017, review of Shtum.

  • Publishers Weekly, March 13, 2017, review of Shtum, p. 56.

  • Times of Israel, May 13, 2016, Anne Joseph, review of Shtum.

  • Washington Post Book World, May 24, 2017, Eli Gottlieb, review of Shtum.

  • Weekend Edition Saturday, May 27, 2017, Scott Simon, “In Shtum, a Portrait of Autism Drawn from Real Life.”

ONLINE

  • BBC Website, http://www.bbc.co.uk/ (November 16, 2017), “Shtum by Jem Lester.”

  • Edinburgh International Book Festival Website, https://www.edbookfest.co.uk/ (November 16, 2017), “Jem Lester.”

  • Jewish News, http://jewishnews.timesofisrael.com/ (November 13, 2017), “Why Keeping Shtum Speaks Volumes.”

  • Shtum ( novel) Overlook Press (New York, NY), 2017
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    Jem Lester is a former journalist and teacher of English and media studies. He is father to a severely autistic son, the experience of which led to the writing of his debut novel, Shtum.

    Shtum follows a family struggling to cope with a severely autistic, mute 11-year-old boy, and trying to secure appropriate care for him in a residential home. How much of that was autobiographical?

    The tribunal story is pretty close. I went through a whole year of fighting our local authority for a place for my son, Jonah. So the story of the bureaucracy and the cost and the tribunal itself are pretty accurate.

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    The parental couple in the book struggle to maintain their relationship. Does that echo your experience too?

    No. Myself and my wife actually divorced when my son was very small – it was nothing to do with Jonah. But we maintained an incredibly good relationship, so while we weren’t married and weren’t living in the same house, we were still part of a twosome. I was still dealing with all of the heartache and I could see the strain and the effect it was having on her.

    Did you ever contemplate writing a memoir rather than a novel? Why did you choose to fictionalise your experiences?

    I’ve always had an aversion to misery memoirs. But I did want to be honest about what it’s like to live with, bring up and worship a profoundly autistic child, because there hasn’t been anything written about that in literature as far as I can see.

    How does it feel having such a personal story in the public domain?

    There’s both euphoria and sadness. When you have to let your son go at 11 years old and know that he’s never going to live with you again, it’s very, very difficult. There’s a grieving process involved in that. So I was writing the novel while also grieving. He’s made huge progress and he’s fabulous, but that’s it for me as far as my son’s concerned – I don’t have him around me any more on a daily basis.

    In the last decade, having autism has almost become fashionable
    There’s a lot of fiction that deals with three generations of women, but less so three generations of men. Do you think that’s an under-explored family dynamic in fiction?

    Yes. I wanted to portray the male perspective because so often I think they’re silent, not just in literature but in life. Novels are snapshots and this is a snapshot about men.

    There have been lots of autistic characters in fiction recently, but your portrayal is the polar opposite of the tortured genius persona. Is that a stereotype you were keen to challenge?

    It was. When you say your child’s autistic, the first question you get asked is, “What’s their talent?” And it’s galling. In the last decade, having autism has almost become fashionable. There are celebrities who think it’s cool to say they’re a bit Aspergic. The visible autistic children are the ones at mainstream schools, who are living at home, and who have their difficulties, but there’s a huge tranche of children who aren’t like that.

    Are you prepared for the possibility that you might become a figurehead for campaigns around autism?

    I’d never describe myself as an expert on autism. I like to think I’m an expert on my son but that’s just one person. But do I think these kids are possibly the most vulnerable group we have because they have no guile whatsoever, they can’t really communicate and therefore they need taking care of.

    I didn’t set out to write a campaigning novel but I’d like readers to be able to identify and see that these children need looking after for life. Because, actually, they’re always children. My son might reach 19 but he’s never going to be an adult.

    Was the act of writing the novel a form of therapy for you?

    No, quite the opposite. It wasn’t cathartic at all. Because my story continues. My son will be 16 soon and I’m already thinking about where he’s going to go when he’s 19. We’re going to have to go through the same process again to find him somewhere. So while the book’s finished, my story goes on. It’s still real life for me.

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    Nice interview. Who are the celebrities who think it's cool to be aspergic? As a mother of an ASD child I don't find anyone thinks it's cool, they think we're exaggerating and making it up despite the teams of professionals ( about 20) verifying it 100% and my son's odd behavior ( their words.) I'm tired of it all.

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    I'm sorry about your experience. I think you may be experiencimg the flipside of the same coin though. I used to live in the US where it extremely common for people to describe themselves as having OCD and/or aspergers (and other things too). When they say this they simulatenously dismiss the severity and life-changing status of these conditions and they try and glamourise and justify what is essentially their own bad behaviour.

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    They only have to spend five minutes in a social situation to realise what the difficulties are. One autistic boy I know said to a lady "how are you so short and so old at the same time"?...going through peoples private drawers when on a visit, not understanding that the rules for one place or behaviour translate to other places and situations. It's constant work just trying to navigate them through to adult hood and a good sense of humour is a pre-requisite.

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    Good piece. I especially appreciate the point made about 'superpowers'. Like there needs to be a compensation for having a kid on the spectrum. I'm pretty sure that if I asked my son to draw me a detailed sketch of the Houses of Parliament he'd just say 'weird' and turn Top Gear up.

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    I think it's a re-emergence of the old 'blind people have super-acute hearing' type myths. It's a comfort for people who don't have a disability to cling to. And of course, if people with disabilities have superpowers, there's no need for society at large to make any adjustments...

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    Also because there are some autistic savants out there - it's just not a common thing. There was this one guy I saw in a documentary who flew over a city in a helicopter, and then drew it all from memory. Most impressive.
    Does make it harder when one does not have a savant talent as you get told it's part of the package so much!

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    Shtum is a Yiddish word that means silence. It's also the title of a novel that centers around three generations of men who get thrown together in a small space and can't talk to each other. Jonah, the little boy, has the best reason: He's profoundly autistic and can't speak. The story has a personal resonance for author Jem Lester, who says that while he bears no resemblance to the father in Shtum, Jonah's story has parallels to his own son. "A lot of the behaviors and the feelings that he inspires in the book, Jonah, are very very close to my feelings, because I couldn't really see the point of reinventing an autistic character when I had one so close to home."

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    On the portrayal of autistic people in popular culture

    Things are improving, but certainly, down the years — I think my first introduction to autism, really, along with a lot of people's, was Dustin Hoffman's portrayal in Rain Man. And I think since then there has been this perception that an autistic child has some kind of special gift ... well, that's just a tiny tiny percentage of the thousands of millions of autistic people in the world. It doesn't in any way reflect the 30% of autistic people who have no language, and sit in a very very different place on what people like to describe as the autistic spectrum.

    On Jonah

    ... there has been this perception that an autistic child has some kind of special gift ... well, that's just a tiny tiny percentage of the thousands of millions of autistic people in the world.
    Jem Lester
    Jonah is ten when we meet him in the book, with no language. And because of that, and because of the frustrations, he can suffer from bouts of self-harm — he will bite down on his hand, and has a big scar on the base of his thumb where he bites down through frustration. He is doubly incontinent, which means he's a ten-year-old that has to wear nappies during the day, and at night. And yet, there is such a level of innocence to him. There is no anger in his face. There is something pure about the way that he looks, and the sparkle in his eyes ...

    He posesses, as a lot of autistic children do ... an almost superhuman strength. And so when he does have a meltdown he is virtually impossible to control. This is something I know very well. And people have asked me questions about, did you really need to provide that much detail? Was it really necessary? And I say, to be honest with you, I toned it down.

    On what he's learned from his own son

    My son Noah has taught me patience, compassion. He's taught me to understand the things in life that really should be important to everyone.
    Jem Lester
    My son Noah has taught me patience, compassion. He's taught me to understand the things in life that really should be important to everyone. And they're the kind of life lessons that you only really learn by being around people that have no axe to grind. So it's made me far more aware of just how many things in this world that have no bearing on my life and should not upset me or drive me mad, just are worthless and pointless and not worth thinking about. And on that basis I suppose, despite everything else, there is — I find a contentment in my own life that doesn't require me to search after goods and services, and all the other things that maybe at some point when I was younger, I'd have been trying to fight for. Now I understand, and that's through someone who's never actually told me that. He's never sat me down like a wise old man and given me the talk. He hasn't had to say anything, he's just had to be him. And I think that's a massive gift.

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    As the father of a profoundly autistic son, Jem Lester tells Katie Law why fighting to get the right care and education for him inspired him to write a novel

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    On Tuesday night, viewers got to watch the first episode of The A Word, a new six-part BBC1 drama about autism featuring a couple struggling to come to terms with their

    five-year-old son Joe’s behaviour. It’s the latest in a rash of programmes including The Autistic Gardener and Young, Autistic and Stagestruck

    that promises to do for autism what Transparent has done for transgender issues and The Great British Bake Off has done for baking.

    For Jem Lester, whose son Noah is profoundly autistic and has learning disabilities, this can do nothing but good. “It was a great depiction of the fear and subsequent denial that parents go through as their child’s ‘differences’ begin to become obvious,” he says. “From my perspective, it was interesting that it was the male characters who seemed to be more open and practical about Joe’s autism.

    “That resonated with me deeply.

    I could feel the tension and distrust gently ramp up as the adults had to face each other, while Joe — as you would expect — seemed oblivious to the maelstrom surrounding him. The lack of invitations to birthday parties and the social isolation for everyone was particularly moving, while the heartache and lack of control so many parents experience was sharply rendered, as more experts became involved and a change of school loomed.”

    Lester knows a lot about experts and changing schools. Until Noah was 11 he went to Russet House, a “very good” specialist autism primary school in Enfield. Since birth Noah had been a late developer. “He didn’t really cry, he was the most perfect baby, he slept, but he never gave the kind of eye contact you’d expect and he showed no inclination to be potty-trained, ” says Lester, who is 49 and an English supply teacher.

    At around two and a half, Noah stopped using the few words he had learned and continued to be doubly incontinent; he became violent and prone to self-harming, scratching his father and biting himself. He wouldn’t sit at a table to eat and stopped speaking. “It was impossible at home. I’d literally be chasing Noah the whole time but he wouldn’t use the toilet. Overnight he’d be in a nappy so by morning he’d need to be stripped and showered off. He’s very tactile, so without understanding what he was doing he would play with it.”

    Lester scrolls through his smartphone to show me a photograph of his neck and chest covered in deep, bloody scratches after one of Noah’s attacks. “All of this is what you’re trying to survive on a daily basis.”

    Today, as Noah approaches 16, although he still doesn’t speak he is out of nappies during the day, will eat at table and appears to be settled and happy. That’s because he’s at Prior’s Court, a specialist autism residential school in Berkshire with an intense “waking day” curriculum operated by a large, highly trained staff. He is there because Lester — and Noah’s mother, Kate Linke — took their local council, Enfield, to court and won the case. The fees are £200,000 a year, which can only be paid by the local authority, rather than parents.

    “They [the local authority] had offered us a [local] secondary school called Durants. We went to see it and knew it wouldn’t cater to Noah. We said we wanted him to go to Prior’s Court.”

    The Lesters hired specialist educational needs barrister Deborah Hay to fight their case, “who as far as I’m aware has never lost”. So began the lengthy, expensive process of compiling specialists’ reports. Shortly before the tribunal, in July 2011, the council offered Noah a place at an alternative residential school, Sybil Elgar in Ealing, run by the National Autistic Society. Its fees are £84,000 a year, less than half those at Prior’s Court.

    This meant having to make a completely new case. “We went to see the school and while it was great for the kids they had there, these kids weren’t Noah,” says Lester. “It was an extraordinary time, exhausting, frustrating and incredibly stressful. I’d lost my mother suddenly. My father then got hideous terminal cancer and died. I was filled with anger.”

    Lester is sure that the offer was at least in part based on financial criteria. “It’s such a huge amount, I’m not denying it and I don’t blame them for not wanting to pay the money but I do blame them and other local authorities for having no imagination or foresight or ability to plan.

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    “If they ran these schools on a different model like some European ones, with extended provisions and without ludicrous six-week-long holidays, it could work a lot better than having someone like my family take them to tribunal to pay £200,000 a year for one child. They’re wasting money by just reacting and not being proactive; they don’t know how to provide for these children.”

    The tribunal cost Lester and his family almost £40,000. “We were fortunate that we had the wherewithal to know what to do, who to hire and who to speak to. I’d sold my house so I had some money and we threw the kitchen sink at it. But there were other kids at Noah’s primary school who were just as bad ...,” Lester pauses and corrects himself, “no, that’s not the right word, as autistic as he was, who would have just rolled on to the next school. Their and their parents’ lives would have been awful.”

    He is deeply dismayed at the recent report from Autistica that people with profound autism have an average life expectancy of 39. “We’re living in the 21st century and a certain section of society is suffering from a medieval life expectancy when there is no reason for it; it is horrendous, shocking news,” he says. Thankfully, Noah is not epileptic, epilepsy having been cited as one of the most common causes of premature death, along with suicide and lack of funding to provide proper long-term care.

    Rather than write a memoir, Lester has turned his experience into a barely disguised novel. At its core is Noah’s story but it is also a compelling account of a father struggling with depression, alcoholism, his own father’s cancer and the break-up of his marriage.

    “I wrote Shtum because I was always struck by the irony of Noah’s ability to tell me what he wanted despite having no language.”

    Lester’s book also challenges the stereotype that all autistic children are “gifted” savants or mathematical geniuses. Noah has no such gifts and yet, says his father, he is “hilarious and brilliant”.

    “Writing it certainly wasn’t a therapy and there were times when I found it painful. Bear in mind that the book finishes but the story behind it is our lives, which carry on. There are still huge obstacles ahead.”

    The local authority will continue to fund Noah at Prior’s Court until he is 19, after which he becomes part of adult services. What then? “Noah will always need this level of care. God knows how he’ll get it.

    “We haven’t even begun to look because I don’t know what’s out there in terms of schools. Prior’s Court can cater up to the age of 25 but that relies on the local authority agreeing to fund him.” It’s a battle Lester is prepared to fight. “I’ve heard that there are certain boroughs that are more progressive than others. We probably would have been better off if we’d been in the borough of Barnet, which we would have been if we’d been on the other side of the high street.

    “London has a big issue because of the huge number of children they’re dealing with. These children are vulnerable and invisible and someone has to have a voice for them.” In Jem Lester, it seems they have found one. Noah, meanwhile, “is blissfully unaware that he is any different from anyone else and he couldn’t care less”.

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    Shtum by Jem Lester
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    When Ben and Emma fake a separation - a strategic decision to further Jonah's case in an upcoming tribunal - Ben and Jonah move in with Georg, Ben's elderly father.

    In a small house in North London, three generations of men - one who can't talk; two who won't - are thrown together. As Ben battles single fatherhood, a string of well-meaning social workers and his own demons, he learns some difficult home truths.

    Jonah, blissful in his innocence, becomes the prism through which all the complicated strands of personal identity, family history and misunderstanding are finally untangled.
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    Jem Lester was a journalist for nine years and saw the Berlin Wall fall in 1989 - and though there, he denies personal responsibility.

    He was also the last journalist to interview the legendary Fred Zinnemann, before the director died. He denies responsibility for that too.

    He taught English and Media studies at secondary schools for nine years. Jem has two children, one of whom is profoundly autistic, and for them he accepts total responsibility. He lives in London with his partner and her two children

    WHY I WROTE SHTUM

    The day after I took my own autistic son to begin a new life at a wonderful residential school in the country, I began the MA in Novel Writing at City University. Having just emerged from a year-long battle with the powers that be to get him there, it seemed serendipitous. After all, it had been more than a decade since I’d truly had the time to concentrate on writing – such was the level of dedication he required.

    To be frank, I was exhausted and emotionally raw and the last subject I wanted to write about was autism. However, after frustrating my tutor, Jonathan, with adamant refusals to do so, I went home for the weekend and pondered long and hard, and came up with a list of pros and cons.

    When I returned to City the following week, my conclusions were the following:

    1. It would have to be funny – because autistic children can be joyously hilarious. As an example, when my son was six or seven, he developed an aversion to my mum. If she entered a room he was in, he’d physically push her out and close the door after her!

    2. Honest – I was truly fed up with being asked what my son’s ‘special talent’ was.

    3. How would I feel if someone else wrote this story?

    And then there was the ironic realisation – long held – that my son, with no language, was far better at communicating his wants and needs than I was.

    After all the soul searching and prevaricating, it was number two that kept hammering at me. I wanted to be honest, even if revealing the brutality of the reality was counter-intuitive. Before my son was born, I read The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time and loved it. Over the years since his birth, I have witnessed the elevation of autism – especially Asperger’s – to something almost fashionable. I’d heard autism used as excuses for shoddy behaviour, as an insult, and seen it adopted as a badge of honour. This was galling to me and, no doubt, to the countless other families dealing with the day-to-day misunderstandings and devastation it could bring. So I found myself in a challenging and (again counter-intuitively) responsible position – how could I write a novel that had a mute central character? How could I write a novel that was about autism yet, at the same time, dealt with so much more?
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    Jem Lester was a journalist for nine years and saw the Berlin Wall fall in 1989 – and though there, he denies personal responsibility. Perhaps it is Lester’s experiences and talent as a journalist that had him turning to real life for inspiration for his debut novel, Shtum.

    Ben Jewell has hit breaking point. His 10 year old son, Jonah, has never spoken. So when Ben and Jonah are forced to move in with Ben's elderly father, three generations of men – one who can't talk, two who won't – are thrown together. As Ben battles single fatherhood, a string of well-meaning social workers and his own demons, he learns some difficult home truths. Jonah, blissful in his ignorance, becomes the prism through which all the complicated strands of personal identity, family history and misunderstanding are finally untangled.

    Based loosely on Lester’s own experiences with his severely autistic child, this book is a funny and heartbreaking story about families, forgiveness and finding a light in the darkest days.

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    It’s the sort of success that first-time authors dream of and for the Southgate-born writer, an affirmation that his story, inspired by his own relationship with his autistic son, really resonates with readers.

    During our meeting, Lester, who is nearing 50, even stops the interview half-way through to proudly show me the hardback version – a sign that the novel’s momentum is going strong.

    Shtum revolves around the story of three generations, including Ben and Emma, and their severely autistic 10-year-old son Jonah, who cannot communicate.

    It charts their struggle to fight for the right type of residential care to suit him, leading to a court battle. The events closely echo Lester’s own life and his relationship with Noah, who will soon turn 16 – and who, Lester tells me with a smile, now towers over him.

    “What’s in the book is just the surface of what we had to deal with, but everything that happens with Jonah is the reality of having a child with Jonah’s autism. That’s what you deal with on a daily basis.”

    Having worked as a journalist before becoming an English supply teacher, writing has been something that Lester has wanted to explore his entire life.

    “I went through the whole tribunal process with Noah. It was draining and a very difficult few years and I kind of promised myself that when the tribunal was over, I was going to step off the carousel and do a master’s degree in creative writing.”

    Lester was offered a place at City University, where his lecturer suggested he write about autism. But he admits being unsure at first.

    “It was serendipitous, because the last thing I wanted to do was write about that. But I discussed it with many people and thought if I do this, it has to be honest and funny – because a lot of what my son does is hilarious.

    “What I didn’t want to write was a single narrative, misery memoir about going through all the motions of the tribunal. It had to be about more than just autism.”

    For the book, Lester draws upon his Jewish heritage and laughs when he admits: “I can write Jews. It’s not all I can write, but whilst my upbringing was fairly secular, I grew up around
    Yiddish. It was a big part of my childhood living in a small Jewish community in Southgate.”

    He also observes that he grew up at a time when the state of Israel had only just been formed and his parents’ generation were still struggling to come to terms with the Holocaust.

    “We are now so used to the Holocaust being featured in every form of education with thousands of books published, but it wasn’t like that in the early 1970s. People didn’t really want to talk about it.”

    The book reflects on this in the complex relationship shown between Ben and his father, Georg, a Hungarian Holocaust survivor, whom Lester describes as a “stoic individual”.

    Georg’s back story is used as a vehicle to provide more details about Ben’s character.

    “It’s all a story within a story to explain the way he is,” adds Lester. “I do believe in second generation survivor guilt and that stuff is still handed down. It is interesting to put those three generations together”.

    Communication is a large theme within the book, between those who can speak to each other and those that remain literally “shtum”. While Ben has a difficult relationship with his father so, too, does he have issues with Emma and the pair find they cannot communicate with each other because of self-pity, anger and shameful thoughts.

    Admitting some of the characters are not always likeable, Lester reflects that the family has been placed under strain, just as it was in real life. “I think the whole situation just turns people inside out,” he says.

    Yet despite the heavier issues dealt with in the book, Shtum also provides a life-affirming and uplifting glimpse into the life of a family coping with autism.

    Given the novel’s continuing popularity, it’s clear that readers are certainly not keeping quiet about Shtum.

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An issue-centered novel from former British journalist Lester showcases severe autism from the point of view of a
devoted, deeply flawed father. Ten-year-old Jonah cannot speak, is not toilet-trained, and has emotionally exhausted his
parents: lawyer Emma, the primary breadwinner, and Ben, who supposedly manages his father's Georg's catering
equipment business, although he spends much of his workday at the pub. In desperation, Emma and Ben apply to place
Jonah in a residential school offering the care he needs. When the local school district, required to cover the extremely
high tuition, cites Jonah's "loving family" as a reason to reject his enrollment at the school (although American readers
may be amazed at how much help the British government does offer), Emma suggests that she and Ben pretend to
separate before appealing the ruling. Ben reluctantly agrees. He and Jonah move in with Georg, while Emma remains
behind in their home. Though she has carefully organized a plan for Ben to follow in order to get Jonah transferred to
the residential school, she becomes increasingly unavailable to talk to Ben or see Jonah and even advises Ben to
borrow the money for legal costs from his father since she has tied up their funds in an investment. Ben and Georg, a
gruff refugee from Hungary, have a difficult relationship. Ben's mother left when he was 12, and Ben resents that his
emotionally withholding father openly adores Jonah and tells him stories about his Jewish childhood in Hungary that
he's never shared with Ben himself. Then Georg is diagnosed with cancer. As Ben cares for both Jonah and Georg
while carrying out Emma's school-appeal blueprint, he must finally face the two long-avoided issues that have
concerned his friends and Lester's readers all along: Ben's dependence on booze and his misreading of so much about
his relationships with Emma and Georg. Lester's tendency toward preachy platitudes--"without loving myself, I cannot
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sacrifice. Ben and Emma Jewell want the best for their son, Jonah, and they believe that includes placing him in a
special residential school for kids with autism. However, obtaining approval for that placement will not be easy. Emma
thinks Jonah will have the best chance of getting into the school if they fake a separation, so she convinces Ben to
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out of the picture, Ben is faced with being a single father to a 10-year-old son who is profoundly autistic, largely
uncommunicative, and physically aggressive, while living with a father from whom he is largely estranged. With all
these difficulties, Ben must also convince the admissions tribunal that the residential school is the most appropriate
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    Shtum by Jem Lester review – a vivid debut about life with an autistic child
    This exhilarating roller coaster ride portrays the love, guilt, exhaustion and rage felt by the parents of a boy with profound learning disabilities
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    ‘What’s going to happen when he’s older? When he’s too big for even me to handle? Will he kill someone? Maim them? What happens when I’m dead? Where will he go … ?” Ben, the narrator of this darkly comic debut from Jem Lester, is brooding about the future of his much-loved and profoundly autistic 11-year-old son. Jonah has no speech, and his only means of communicating his needs is by selecting pictures on laminated cards.

    When he is stressed, frightened or frustrated Jonah bites his hands until they bleed. He hurts himself and other people, even those he loves the most. He is doubly incontinent. Shtum traces the long war his parents fight to get local authority funding for an eye-wateringly expensive specialist residential school. It is their only hope for Jonah’s future happiness as he has made no progress in primary school.

    This is not the kind of autism familiar from Rain Man and The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time, where the central characters’ obsessions, sensory idiosyncracies and social difficulties can be understood with a little sympathy and imagination. Jonah’s inner world is a baffling mystery even to those who observe him most closely. The 25%-30% of autistic people who never develop language rarely make it into fiction or on to our screens.

    Jonah is no mere cipher but a very real boy: he adores twirling feathers, hot bubble baths and Marmite on toast. He is unpredictable, has no sense of danger and needs constant vigilance. His parents ricochet between love, guilt, exhaustion and rage. As the novel opens, Ben’s wife Emma suggests Ben moves out with Jonah on the basis that being a single father will make their son’s need for a residential school more urgent.

    Shtum, the Yiddish word for keeping silent or hiding secrets, is the perfect title for a novel in which even those who can speak do not share their thoughts with each other. Ben is a copywriter whose alcoholism lost him his job, now slumming it in his father’s catering supply business. As if that wasn’t bad enough, he is forced to move back in with his father, Georg, a Holocaust survivor who has never made any bones about how much he dislikes his son’s self-pity and inability to see a job through to the end.

    It makes for an uneasy household. Georg’s tenderness towards his wordless autistic grandson is both welcome and resented; he tells Jonah bedtime stories of his youth escaping the Nazis, tales never shared with his own son. Meanwhile, Emma, a seemingly successful lawyer, is keeping her own counsel. She doesn’t answer calls, leaving her estranged husband filled with suspicion and jealousy. At first a shadowy, unsympathetic figure, she becomes fully realised as the novel develops.

    Lester doesn’t spare his main character: Ben isn’t an idealised hero battling for his disabled son’s rights. His failings are laid out in plain sight. He is a man-boy who has never quite grown up. At one point he reflects: “I’m wearing a costume, shuffling around in oversized shoes, playing the role of an adult.” This is the literary territory of Tony Parsons and Nick Hornby, infused with the Jewish humour of Howard Jacobson and Shalom Auslander.

    The novel’s text is broken up with officious letters from authorities, crammed with Orwellian doublespeak. It is also peppered with ironically deployed icons of the type Jonah uses to communicate. At times Lester’s ambitious cinematic crosscutting between showdowns with officialdom and stories from the past puts a strain on the narrative flow. Overall, though, this is an impressive novel that gives a very accurate portrayal of the struggles some families of autistic children endure, while taking the reader on an exhilarating roller coaster ride between pathos, comedy and anger.

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    ‘Shtum’, by Jem Lester

    The moving story of a family’s fight for their autistic child’s future
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    Readers may remember the phenomenon that was For the Love of Ann, a father’s memoir about bringing up an autistic daughter in the 1950s, when understanding and support for families was almost totally lacking. It became a word-of-mouth hit in the 1970s and it brought autism, then a mysterious and often undiagnosed condition, to public attention.

    Four decades later, Jem Lester, the father of a profoundly autistic teenager, has written Shtum, an updated but no less harrowing and angry novel about what it means to be the parent of a child who may never speak, nor be able to go to bed without a nappy. Lester is unsentimental on parenthood that does not follow the usual script; he watches friends’ children “developing quickly, dreading the inevitable day, when — like a burn-up at the traffic lights — my son remains in neutral as they roar off into the distance”.

    Shtum is Lester’s debut, and although classed as fiction, the veneer is often thin. Lester has talked in interviews about his family’s battle to get their son a funded place in a specialist residential secondary school (cost to the local authority: £200,000 per year), spending a fortune on a tribunal fighting the authority’s assertion that the boy’s needs would be met at a (far cheaper) local school.

    This fictionalised version of this fight offers outsiders a glimpse into the frustration of dealing with officialdom as Ben Jewell, the book’s narrator, fights to secure the best future for 11-year-old Jonah.

    Shtum is named for, and about, silence — most obviously that of Jonah, who spoke as a small child but has lost his words now, and babbles sweetly: “If he had a speaking voice it would be like a mesmeric peal of church bells.” Jonah lives in a self-contained world, finding delight in dancing naked in the garden and in watching shiny ornaments. He is also easily angered, and Ben has the bruises to prove it.

    Ben is barely coping, self-medicating while running the family catering business (badly) and attempting to avoid getting into a situation where his wife Emma could conceive a second child. Emma is the capable, sensible one. She deals with all the official correspondence and meetings about Jonah. Then she announces a lengthy work trip to Hong Kong and forces Ben to take charge of the tribunal case.

    Emma suggests that it would give them a better chance of winning the tribunal if they appear to have separated. Ben and Jonah move in with his father, Georg Jewell, a charismatic, funny and practical man who fled the Nazis in Hungary as a child. The layers of silence — about Georg’s own family, about his marriage to Ben’s mother, and his own health — are explored in moving, bleakly funny detail.

    Seeing Emma through Ben’s eyes — she leaves him in sole charge of Jonah for months — makes her seem harsh and odd. Why leave her child like that? It’s the underwritten, unsatisfying aspect of the book. She does eventually reappear with an explanation, but this is really the story of the men in the family. At its heart are the things they need to say to each other but often keep “shtum” about — and the child who says nothing, but communicates his needs eloquently.

    Shtum, by Jem Lester, Orion, RRP£12.99, 320 pages

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    To write a novel about someone who has severe autism is to grapple with a paradox. After all, severe autism repels language, turns it chaotic or, in the case of autistic mut­ism, simply absorbs it wholesale, as a black hole does light. This hasn’t, of course, kept fiction writers from regularly using autistic and developmentally disabled narrators and protagonists in their work.

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    In “Shtum,” a moving, darkly funny new novel by British journalist Jem Lester, who is the father of a severely autistic child, the narrator is a somewhat dissolute 30-something man named Benjamin Jewell. The main subject of the novel, however, is Benjamin’s 10-year-old son, Jonah, who is autistic and mute. “His mind,” the father says memorably of Jonah, “is like a dictionary with the pages glued together.”

    As heart-rending as mutism in severe autism is, it often arrives with the particularly cruel backstory of a child who speaks somewhat normally in the first year or two of life and then gradually, mysteriously relinquishes language until disappearing entirely into silence. As Ben observes, “Jonah was born and it was fluffy clouds and sleepless nights. But as he reached three, the fairy tale revealed itself an impostor — the red hood fell away to show the Big Bad Wolf of autism.”

    “Shtum” opens on that crossroads moment that afflicts all parents of children with severe autism: where and how to place the child in a residential facility. No matter the good intentions of the parents or how self-sacrificing their desire to keep their child at home, adolescence, with its onrush of agitating hormones, tends to make home care an impossibility. In the case of Jonah, he’s still in diapers at age 10, and on an average day, he paints the walls with his feces, burgles the fridge for food that he then flings around the house, bites his father and takes the majority of his rage out on himself.

    Yet as disabled as Jonah is, he may not, it turns out, be autistic enough. He may not, in other words, qualify for the luxurious, garden-like Highgrove Manor School, which costs a staggering 200,000 pounds a year, all of it provided by the state. He may have to remain “in borough” and make do with the local, far less impressive and less costly Maureen Mitchell Secondary School. As his mother, Emma, says poignantly, “We’re being punished because we love and care for him and he’s not as good at autism as he could be.” To which Ben responds, “He’ll never play autism for England.”

    Author Jem Lester. (Catherine Ercilla)
    Although it is typically mothers who do the heavy lifting in families with disabled children, in “Shtum,” it is Ben, a perennially underemployed alcoholic, who is the devoted and central parent. Emma loves their child no less, but as a lawyer and a highly organized careerist, she is simply less available.

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    Their response to the quandary of where to place their child is to pretend to divorce, in the belief that Jonah will be more readily taken by the expensive facility if his home life seems to depend on a single parent (why this would convince a judge to make such a choice is never made exactly clear). To that end, Ben and Jonah move out of their home and take up with Ben’s elderly father. The portrait of the father, a cantankerous yet loving Hungarian Jewish refugee from World War II, is one of the surprise pleasures of the book. And the midsection of the novel, which describes the way the sham divorce slowly becomes a real divorce while the grandfather and Jonah bond without words, is deeply affecting.

    Overall, however, “Shtum” (the word is Yiddish for “silence”) is a bit of a mixed bag. The author elects to tell the story in first person present tense, a choice that adds a choppy, staccato feel to things and also underlines some of the narrative discontinuities that creep into the text along the way. The dialogue can occasionally feel a bit canned, as if lifted from a lesser sitcom, and the author overplays the scenes of his narrator as a feckless, self-loathing alcoholic, endlessly recycling glimpses of him drunk, drying out and drunk again.

    What “Shtum” does do well, and memorably, is describe the ferocity of attachment a parent feels toward a disabled child. It unsentimentally lays out the terrain such a parent must negotiate both at home and institutionally, and paints a vivid portrait of a family under siege by this most mysterious of contemporary maladies. To its credit, “Shtum” proposes humor as a balm in even the darkest of situations. If paying detailed attention to one’s characters is a form of love, it is also a powerful, and even remarkable, love letter to a child.

    Eli Gottlieb is the author, most recently, of the novel “Best Boy.”

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    'AFTER A WHILE YOU CAN’T IMAGINE THE CHILD BEING ANY OTHER WAY'
    Novel explores how autism can teach a family to communicate
    Centered around a nonverbal autistic son and Holocaust survivor grandfather, Jem Lester's semi-autobiographical debut 'Shtum' wins hearts and acclaim

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    LONDON — “The only thing predictable about Jonah is his unpredictability,” says Ben, the narrator in Jem Lester’s debut novel “Shtum.” As he cautiously monitors Jonah, his profoundly autistic son, sitting in the back of a car Ben knows even a mere detour has the potential to cause Jonah anxiety and Ben “untold stress.”

    “Shtum” centers around ten-year-old Jonah, who is non-verbal, doubly incontinent and requires constant attention. When frightened, anxious or frustrated he can harm himself and others — including those who love and care for him. His parents, Ben and Emma, are struggling to cope.

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    A specialist residential school would provide the best help for Jonah’s needs, but Ben and Emma are forced to launch a legal battle against their municipality, which is reticent to grant the considerable funds.

    At the heart of the narrative is communication — or rather the lack of it — between three generations of men: Ben, his father Georg, and Jonah.

    When Ben and Jonah are forced to move in with Georg, the stresses intensify and Jonah, blissfully innocent, becomes the prism through which all the complicated familial strands of identity, history, and misunderstanding are viewed.

    Reviewers described “Shtum” as “an unforgettable first novel,” and “an exhilarating roller coaster ride between pathos, comedy, and anger.”

    Author Jem Lester holds his son Noah as a baby. Like the novel's Jonah character, Noah is on the autistic spectrum and requires special care (courtesy)
    Jem Lester holds his son Noah as a baby. Like the novel’s Jonah character, Noah is on the autistic spectrum and requires special care (courtesy)
    It has been included in The Independent newspaper’s “10 Best Book Club Reads for 2016,” and Lester has been referred to as “one to watch” more than once.

    Lester, a former journalist and English teacher, cannot quite believe the level of attention and accolade that his book has received. Engaging and easy going, he says over a drink in a busy central London café that even the pre-release review proof copies had to be reprinted several times.

    Publishing rights have been sold to numerous countries, including Israel, where Sendik Books will be publishing the Hebrew version.

    “Shtum” is vivid, raw and unremitting in its portrayal of parenting a child with autism. It is a perfect example of how compelling the art-life continuum can be — Lester’s 16-year-old son, Noah, is severely autistic.

    A story close to the heart

    Although “Shtum” is a work of fiction, many of the events, scenes, and emotions that appear in the book are based on personal experiences.

    “The thread of the story regarding the tribunal, the bureaucracy and the machinations leading up to that is pretty close,” he explains. “And Jonah as a character probably started off in my head as my son, but at some point during the writing, he just became himself.”

    There are other parallels. Much of Jonah’s behavior is based on Noah — who also doesn’t speak — and certain aspects of Ben’s character echo his own, although not as much as some would imagine, he says.

    ‘I thought that if I can make it funny and honest, then I will do it’

    “This idea of his not finishing anything is me and I think that I have always had great difficulty — and probably still do — with communicating my needs, wants and feelings. The irony is that I always found I could do it on paper but I couldn’t ever confront it.”

    But, he says, Ben’s relationship with his wife is completely fictional. And, unlike Ben, he never felt the kind of frustration for his son that Ben exhibits surrounding Jonah.

    Lester had known about his son’s autism from a very early age and, “I was so in love with him it made no difference. And then after a while, you can’t imagine the child being any other way.”

    Behind the scenes

    “Shtum” was written while Lester was studying for a Masters degree in creative writing. Yet writing about autism had not been Lester’s initial intention. Prior to beginning the course, he, his ex-wife — with whom he had separated when Noah was still very young — and her husband won a tribunal claim for Noah after a year-long fight against the local municipality.

    Author Jem Lester has received a warm reception to his debut novel 'Shtum,' but still faces daily challenges raising son Noah (Catherine Ercilla)
    Author Jem Lester has received a warm reception to his debut novel ‘Shtum,’ but still faces daily challenges raising son Noah (Catherine Ercilla)
    “I’d lost both my parents in the previous three years. It was tough. Then I started the Masters the very next day [after taking Noah to his new residential school]. At that point I was so raw from it that I thought, ‘No, I’m too close.’”

    Lester’s course director encouraged him otherwise and once Lester had talked about the idea with a few people he trusted, he changed his mind.

    “I thought that if I can make it funny — my inclination in my writing is always to do that — and honest, then I will do it,” Lester says.

    The family in “Shtum” is Jewish but “it doesn’t resemble my own,” he says. One of the novel’s most poignant characters is Ben’s father Georg, a Holocaust survivor, who is unable to talk to his son about his traumatic past and instead, relays his childhood experiences to the silent Jonah.

    The nature of the relationship is not only confessional, it illustrates the special intergenerational bond that can exist within families.

    “It wasn’t a book until I found him,” Lester says. But the process of writing “Shtum” gave Lester no catharsis whatsoever — “Not even remotely. It was really difficult.” And revising the book became an onerous task.

    “That was the hardest bit. Not that it required major surgery but simply because I was going over and over and reading through the same [painful] stuff. It took me a year when it should have really only taken two or three months.”

    Lester came up with the idea of the book’s apt Yiddish title – the word for silent or non-communicative. His course tutor, who is also Jewish, liked it but told him not to be surprised if it got changed in case the word or its significance was not understood. Fortunately it has not been an issue.

    “All the way down the line, they’ve loved the title,” Lester says.

    A wider context

    In a coincidence of autism narratives, the release of “Shtum” comes at the same time as the screening of UK BBC drama series “The A Word,” which is an adaptation of Israel’s award winning Keshet International series “Yellow Peppers.”

    Cover of 'Shtum' by Jem Lester, the author's debut novel which was released on April 7th by Orion (courtesy)
    Cover of ‘Shtum’ by Jem Lester. The author’s debut novel was released on April 7 by Orion (courtesy)
    It focuses on a family’s painful — and often humorous — journey of denial and introspection after their five-year-old son is diagnosed with autism. In Lester’s view, bringing such a story to a wider audience can only be a good thing.

    But he is keen to challenge the popular “genius” stereotype — that a person with autism has a special talent or gift, such as the protagonists depicted in “Rain Man” or “The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time.”

    A staggering 25-30% of adults and children with autism have no language, he says — a statistic that he admits shocked him when he found out. These characters rarely seem to have been represented in literature or film.

    “I think that’s why people have cottoned onto my book, because it’s very different in its portrayal from anything else [on the subject].”

    Although the characters in Lester’s fictional tale achieve some resolution, of course the reality for Lester is different. The issues are ongoing. Once his son Noah reaches 19, he says, he will be deemed an adult despite still presenting as a child and his care provision will have to change. Lester is only too aware of the potential challenges, both financial and emotional, that this will bring.

    Before he leaves to get to his next interview, Lester says that he is still managing to teach, but only in a supply role because of his book commitments.

    “One day at the BBC and one day being abused in the classroom,” he says laughing. “That brings you back to earth!”

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    A Romanian coin bearing the likenesses of former governors of the National Bank of Romania from left) Ion I. Câmpineanu, Mihail Manoilescu and Ion I. Lapedatu. The coin is one of a series of three in gold, bronze and silver. (Romanian National Bank)
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    Manoilescu was foreign minister in 1940, when Romania was allied with Nazi Germany. A supporter of the fascist Iron Guard, he signed a diktat under which Romania lost large swaths of territory to Hungary.

    It said in a statement that the coin was part of a series minted in mid-April honoring former bank governors and noted that Manoilescu had been governor in 1931, a year of economic crisis.

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    A Romanian coin bearing the likenesses of former governors of the National Bank of Romania from left) Ion I. Câmpineanu, Mihail Manoilescu and Ion I. Lapedatu. The coin is one of a series of three in gold, bronze and silver. (Romanian National Bank)
    It said that the coins it minted were not intended to offend any community or “send a message with an offensive, xenophobic or discriminatory nature.”

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    Would-be parrot thief ends up in the cage
    By TOI STAFF
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